How to escape from sexual sins?

Full Question:

I am a believer of God for the last seven years and also was in the ministry of God. Some months before while browsing internet I unfortunately visited some pages with sexual content and from that time onwards some force is controlling me to commit sins, even up to adultery. Now I'm, really suffering to get back to the grace of God. Please help me to escape from these sexual sins?

Answer:

OK. I can know your desire in heart to get back to God by leaving these situations. It's only because of that wish to be with God, you asked me this question and tried to uncover yourselves. God will also bless you for the same as it's written in Proverbs 28:13 that, "He who conceals his sins does not prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them finds mercy."

The main thing I noticed when a believer of God fall in any type of sins, Satan will always try to bring extreme sadness of guilt in his heart. This will create a feeling in his heart that He was fallen short from the grace of God and there is no chance left for him. Let me tell you, this is the best trick of Satan to deviate the people from God's grace again and again. You should first of all remember that Satan is a great liar and the father of all lies. Never give ears to his words or never trust him. Listen only to God and what is written in the Bible.

In the Bible we can see lot of people fallen short from the grace of God including God's people, kings and prophets. They used to commit sins of adultery, idol worship and so on. Even David, a man after God's own heart committed the sins of adultery. Almost all the kings of Israel committed sin by disobeying God's commandment not to take many wives. Usually all human beings are a slave of a sin or another. It's because they aren't perfect. The best thing to do is to always keep praying and practicing to be perfect focusing to the only perfect person, Jesus Christ.

I also prefer you to read this link. Will God forgive if we repent and sin again?

The first and best thing which you can do is to confess your sins. To those who confess their sins will get the grace of God. If we keep silent without confessing our sins, our bones wasted away through my groaning all day long. We will feel the hands of Lord heavy upon us for day and night causing our strength to sapped as in the heat of summer. So first decide with your whole heart to acknowledge and confess your sins and transgressions to God and did not cover up your iniquity for that He will forgive you the guilt of your sin.

These are all words of David and he knows in his heart that if anyone confess his sins and transgressions God will forgive him. But to ask forgiveness from heart with a decision not to commit it again is a very important thing. You should have to read the confession prayer of David in Psalms 51. Once you prayed from you heart to God asking forgiveness for your sins, by confessing. Your sins are forgiven and it doesn't matter how deep and cruel your sins are. But, you should also believe with your heart that your sins are completely forgiven by God.

While you pray, you should pray from your own heart in your own language, taking as much as time you needed. First you should confess your sins and transgressions. Then you should ask forgiveness to God for opened your heart to commit that sin. Then you should forgive to that person, if any and to your body to opened the door for such a purpose. Then you should pray so that God may cleanse you with the blood of Jesus Christ. You should cancel the hold of that sin in you the name of Jesus Christ. you should also cancel the unwanted relation with the person you committed that sin, if any, with the name of Jesus Christ. You should proclaim victory in the name of Jesus Christ over the sins, while praying. You should tell to Satan, to leave you along with all his temptations. You should ask God for His grace to stay in holiness and cover yourselves with the blood of Jesus, so that the temptations will not come to you again.

Once your sins are forgiven, you should also take care not to fall in sins again. The very best way to stay away from all sins is to read and study word of God daily, pray to God (Click the links to read that) daily and also share gospel. No sins can stick up with a person who do these three things. Also you should separate your time as tithe to God and for that you should separate a minimum of 2 hours, 40 minutes all together to sit with God. Never give opportunity for sins to enter in you. You should take care to stay away from hearing, watching and touching ungodly things which may cause temptations in you to commit sins again.

If Satan is again tempting you to commit sins and if you are committing sins again without being able to take victory over those temptations, even after confessing sins to about three to five times. You should realize the fact that, it's more than what you can take victory by yourselves and it's because of a demon inside you. To cast that demon out, you should have to first find the reason in which, the demon is holding on to you. In normal case, that reason should be related to the first door that you opened to commit that sin and it can be knowingly or unknowingly. But in these type of cases, I prefer you to consult a spiritual counselor or a powerful minister of God, whom you can trust. Share your problem with him and he will surely help you to cast that demon out of you.

May God bless you and everyone with this answer to deliver from the sins which they are committing. May God also help all of you to choose correct ways and decisions, to help you walk in righteousness and holiness.