If you know a girl was stabbed many many times?

Full Question:

If you know a girl was stabbed many many times by her boyfriend and she believed in God, and she was a very good person. She was a "child of God"

Please don't give me an Adam and Eve story. I'm saying this in tears because I have proved God before in prayer but I'm on the brink of not believing in anything because that was my own friend. She was physically stabbed.

What would be the reason God didn't help her? Why would God allow that?

Answer:

First of all I am sorry and sad for what just happened to your friend. I am also so sorry for that I can never blame God for what happened. I also know very well that it was not a mistake of God. First of all don't judge things by the same way which you see with your eyes. You should need to discern and analyze things before judging to know the facts behind it.

First of all, do you think any person in this world will become so worst with a single day to stab her girlfriend planned? Never. It is not logical. For such a thing to happen, at least from a long back onwards he will be some kind of cruel in his heart. If your friend is a person who see the things in the way it is, this will never happen to her for there was a long time left for her to escape from him. But what just happened is your friend, who was blind with love never tried to see his failures and weaknesses, in the way it is. She also never believed even the doubtful things that happened in him.

Is it her mistake or God's mistake?

The second thing is the bible do not support any person to have a boyfriend and girlfriend. It talks about to love your brothers as brothers and sisters and sisters with pure love. A person is allowed to marry once in a life time and that spouse should be bounded with him/her. Bible says it very clearly not to walk in bad ways of the worlds. But she disobeyed God in that case too and walked in the ways which she was not allowed to from the basis of the bible.

Is this a mistake from God or her mistake?

The next thing is I don't think that her boy friend was a believer of God from the essential details you provided. Bible says not to marry a non-believer and it says to stay away from such persons for it is not suitable for the members of the church. It also says not to build unwanted relations with persons of this world for they are not from God. If she was a child of God as you said, she will also obey God for that.

Is it her mistake or God's mistake?

Then finally, it is always a joke for people to hear this. Did you ever heard that God created man with free will? Free will is the freedom given to human being by God to choose his own decision. Still, if we notice we can see that God give warning to almost all people before they are about to commit some serious sin. It was not by pulling him physically, but by pulling him mentally.

I think you know the story of Abel and Cain. God told (warned) Cain to escape from the sin of murdering which Cain was going to commit. That warning act like a mental pull for Cain in his heart. But Cain overcome that mental pulling from God and finally committed sin by disobeying God's pulling. This is also the same thing which we call temptations of the mind. You, me and everyone can feel this pulling of God, when you are about to commit sins and so on. God have nothing to do for people who overcome this backward pull and commit sins just like Cain committed it due to their free will.

Similar is what just happened in your friend's case also. Surely God provided a backward pull in her boyfriend's heart not to commit it. But he committed it by overcoming that. This was also not a fault form God.

If your purpose is to blame God, you can blame God for anything and for everything and it was really easy. Even you can say it all happened for God created human beings. But it is really very difficult to love God with all heart, soul and spirit in the midst of all problems and sufferings in this world. God is also looking for such people. If you have a heart to understand this fact and not to blame God, you will surely receive God's grace. If you are rejecting these simple facts, I have nothing more to do and there was no meaning for your tears.

May God bless you with this answer to understand Him more in the way He is. God loves you and everyone so much, but there are only very few people who really loves him. Check your relationship with God. Go close to him. You are precious for Jesus.