Full Question:
Dear dad. i really hate you.? my relationship with my dad isn't great, and it never will be; he stuffed up too many times and i cant forgive him anymore.
i used to always stay the night at his place in the weekend but i cant take it anymore.
the situation is hard to explain but hes a wimpy man-child who i just cant stand, and every Christmas its always a massive argument over whose place i stay at.
I just hate him, and i hate it that no matter how many times i type/say/scream that i hate him it doesn't change the fact that hes my dad. can you relate?
Answer:
Dear Friend, its not only you, but so many people have similar problems these days. We can consider all these as problems in life. There are many ways to escape from the problems in our life and even in mathematics. But if I say, the better way to solve a problem is by finding a solution in our life. Once if we know the solution, we can deal with the same problems easily in our life. The other option is to run from (escape) the problems. But the probability for that problem to occur in our life is more and we can't run or escape from problems all the days of our life.
'Solve' or 'Escape', Yours is the decision. I will certainly help you if your decision is to solve the problem. First you want clearly understand that, he is your father in all sense. All sense include, the reason for your birth, the one who supported and helped your mother for many things, and for you, the one who cared when you are young, one who protected from many situations, the one who take you to the doctor when you are sick, the one who given you food to make your body grow, the one who carried and given you the kisses of love and care and so many similar things.
I don't think it is good to hate or reject a person like this, when we are capable of doing things ourselves. I can know that these are not the condition these days, but you have to understand that once it was like what I said and it changed for some reasons. Consider this situation with you, you are troubling and trying to escape from one small problem in your life. Did you ever thought about the problems in your father's life. Or do you think you are the only one with problems and Your father, me and all others are so free in life. No Dear, We all have problems in our life one way or other.
You know you face your problems by typing, saying, screaming and by trying to escape from problem. I usually face problems by trying to solve and face it with maximum boldness I had. But, may be one way in which your father face problems by behaving you like this. And if it is so, is it right to escape from your father leaving by adding more great problems. Otherwise he behave like this expecting some thing from you, say love, care, words of comfort which offer support or he expect you to stay with him.
I think your question contain the main reason for your problem which says 'my relationship with my dad isn't great' First you need to find a solution for this problem and you should forgive him from all your heart. If you tell your father frankly all your mistakes and your hatred toward him and ask forgiveness to him. Once you doe it, I can assure that your problem is almost solved. Don't feel any ego to say sorry and ask forgiveness, because he is your father and not a stranger. And never thing he don't love you because every father and parents love their children. The only problem is, some don't know how to express their love, some don't know how to love, some always fail in problems and fail to love, some are hung-up with their own problems and didn't get time, some lack an opportunity. But the truth is all parents love their children.
And try consider the same situation in your life in which your son/daughter behave to you like this. Try your best to solve the problem some how and start loving your father. Seek the help of God to help you in this situation and ask a solution for this from your heart in Jesus name. I think my answer will help you and may God bless you with this answer to face this problem. God bless you.
Dear dad. i really hate you.? my relationship with my dad isn't great, and it never will be; he stuffed up too many times and i cant forgive him anymore.
i used to always stay the night at his place in the weekend but i cant take it anymore.
the situation is hard to explain but hes a wimpy man-child who i just cant stand, and every Christmas its always a massive argument over whose place i stay at.
I just hate him, and i hate it that no matter how many times i type/say/scream that i hate him it doesn't change the fact that hes my dad. can you relate?
Answer:
Dear Friend, its not only you, but so many people have similar problems these days. We can consider all these as problems in life. There are many ways to escape from the problems in our life and even in mathematics. But if I say, the better way to solve a problem is by finding a solution in our life. Once if we know the solution, we can deal with the same problems easily in our life. The other option is to run from (escape) the problems. But the probability for that problem to occur in our life is more and we can't run or escape from problems all the days of our life.
'Solve' or 'Escape', Yours is the decision. I will certainly help you if your decision is to solve the problem. First you want clearly understand that, he is your father in all sense. All sense include, the reason for your birth, the one who supported and helped your mother for many things, and for you, the one who cared when you are young, one who protected from many situations, the one who take you to the doctor when you are sick, the one who given you food to make your body grow, the one who carried and given you the kisses of love and care and so many similar things.
I don't think it is good to hate or reject a person like this, when we are capable of doing things ourselves. I can know that these are not the condition these days, but you have to understand that once it was like what I said and it changed for some reasons. Consider this situation with you, you are troubling and trying to escape from one small problem in your life. Did you ever thought about the problems in your father's life. Or do you think you are the only one with problems and Your father, me and all others are so free in life. No Dear, We all have problems in our life one way or other.
You know you face your problems by typing, saying, screaming and by trying to escape from problem. I usually face problems by trying to solve and face it with maximum boldness I had. But, may be one way in which your father face problems by behaving you like this. And if it is so, is it right to escape from your father leaving by adding more great problems. Otherwise he behave like this expecting some thing from you, say love, care, words of comfort which offer support or he expect you to stay with him.
I think your question contain the main reason for your problem which says 'my relationship with my dad isn't great' First you need to find a solution for this problem and you should forgive him from all your heart. If you tell your father frankly all your mistakes and your hatred toward him and ask forgiveness to him. Once you doe it, I can assure that your problem is almost solved. Don't feel any ego to say sorry and ask forgiveness, because he is your father and not a stranger. And never thing he don't love you because every father and parents love their children. The only problem is, some don't know how to express their love, some don't know how to love, some always fail in problems and fail to love, some are hung-up with their own problems and didn't get time, some lack an opportunity. But the truth is all parents love their children.
And try consider the same situation in your life in which your son/daughter behave to you like this. Try your best to solve the problem some how and start loving your father. Seek the help of God to help you in this situation and ask a solution for this from your heart in Jesus name. I think my answer will help you and may God bless you with this answer to face this problem. God bless you.
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