Full Question:
I have to advise my friend. Her boyfriend is pressurizing for physical relations and assures marriage after one year? She is under pressure and is afraid of loosing him. In my views he is very aggressive and over protective. He dominates her as I saw them on telephone. The boy spoke for about 43 minutes and the girl only responded with yes or no. She belongs to a good family but boy gives threatening that you have to serve my parents. She has four sisters, parents are old. No brothers. The boy insists that your parents are old and will not live not more than 5 years. so just forget them. The girl is under pressure. She wants to break the relations but the moment boy calls she starts weeping and is convinced. The boy as not informed his family about this relationship and he assured the girl that his family is awarded. I have to advise the girl who is 24 and is a student. Her parents are under stress and helpless as the girl many a times threaten to kill her.
Answer:
Dear Friend, I will surely understand the your worse situation and will answer this question to help your friend. Consider my answer seriously and do things in wisdom. I can see the situation here is very worse and is only one of the consequences of falling in a love affair.
First of all please understand some real truth dear. Each and every one who are in love is in a world of their own with lots of dreams and fully trusting and believing. The love may be true or false, but the main common purpose for marriage especially for love affair is physical relationship. They both love each other for that 'physical relationship'. We too know that the the fulfillment of love will come with physical relationship. To make this physical relation is for that they are marrying each other.
The main thing which you and every unmarried person must have to know is that once if they allowed them for a physical relation. It makes them feel so satisfied and they will think like, 'this is not pleasureful as I imagined and it is not possible to carry such a person in all the days of my life.' So they will start rejecting each other and finally get split. But if they are united by a marriage in public, they just try to be satisfied in that a life, even if there are the same thoughts.
In you friend's case I can assure you that, Once if your friend accept to or allow him to have physical relationship with him, from the very next day or moment onwards, he will start hating her and will surely reject her. It is a clear incident in many persons life as far as I know.
What I am advising you is that to tell your friend never to have sex with him at any cost even if he reject her.It is better he reject her before having sex, than to reject her after having a relation which may result in some pregnancies and also to spoil her virginity, confidence, future hope and so on. .It will also result in some mental depressions and all to her and will also affect her sisters marriage or married life also.
You have to advice her and convince her with this, because you are her friend. Tell her also to seek the help of her parents to avoid him. Pray to God to help you describe this things to her and I can assure you that God Jesus will be with you to help you. May God bless you with this answer.
I have to advise my friend. Her boyfriend is pressurizing for physical relations and assures marriage after one year? She is under pressure and is afraid of loosing him. In my views he is very aggressive and over protective. He dominates her as I saw them on telephone. The boy spoke for about 43 minutes and the girl only responded with yes or no. She belongs to a good family but boy gives threatening that you have to serve my parents. She has four sisters, parents are old. No brothers. The boy insists that your parents are old and will not live not more than 5 years. so just forget them. The girl is under pressure. She wants to break the relations but the moment boy calls she starts weeping and is convinced. The boy as not informed his family about this relationship and he assured the girl that his family is awarded. I have to advise the girl who is 24 and is a student. Her parents are under stress and helpless as the girl many a times threaten to kill her.
Answer:
Dear Friend, I will surely understand the your worse situation and will answer this question to help your friend. Consider my answer seriously and do things in wisdom. I can see the situation here is very worse and is only one of the consequences of falling in a love affair.
First of all please understand some real truth dear. Each and every one who are in love is in a world of their own with lots of dreams and fully trusting and believing. The love may be true or false, but the main common purpose for marriage especially for love affair is physical relationship. They both love each other for that 'physical relationship'. We too know that the the fulfillment of love will come with physical relationship. To make this physical relation is for that they are marrying each other.
The main thing which you and every unmarried person must have to know is that once if they allowed them for a physical relation. It makes them feel so satisfied and they will think like, 'this is not pleasureful as I imagined and it is not possible to carry such a person in all the days of my life.' So they will start rejecting each other and finally get split. But if they are united by a marriage in public, they just try to be satisfied in that a life, even if there are the same thoughts.
In you friend's case I can assure you that, Once if your friend accept to or allow him to have physical relationship with him, from the very next day or moment onwards, he will start hating her and will surely reject her. It is a clear incident in many persons life as far as I know.
What I am advising you is that to tell your friend never to have sex with him at any cost even if he reject her.It is better he reject her before having sex, than to reject her after having a relation which may result in some pregnancies and also to spoil her virginity, confidence, future hope and so on. .It will also result in some mental depressions and all to her and will also affect her sisters marriage or married life also.
You have to advice her and convince her with this, because you are her friend. Tell her also to seek the help of her parents to avoid him. Pray to God to help you describe this things to her and I can assure you that God Jesus will be with you to help you. May God bless you with this answer.
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